MAKING DECISIONS

I was reading a true life story about a lady online who was raped by some guys when she was in her teens. Due to the fact that she was molested and sexually abused, she became angry at herself, she was so angry and mad that she reacted to the actions that were taken on her.
       So what happened next, this circumstance changed her life, she decided to live the "runs girls" life, sleeping around and holding on to the fact that it was due to what happened to her that made her to take those decisions.
       Okay now let analyse this, truly it such a bad thing to experience this kind of situation but then, when you decide to take actions and react in a negative way to what has happened to you, they you will be responsible for your reckless life and be blamed for it.
       Everyone has had one bad experience or the other, but the power, strength to be able to overcome those bad situations is something every one needs to have.
Don't say because you are being abused to be ugly, u accepted and start behaving like one. Don't say because they say you are dumb, u accepted and start behaving like a dumb ass. Don't say because they say u can never make it, you give up on yourself and assume to say they have spoken the truth about your life.

       You are what you define yourself to be, One thing is that they will talk, insult, accuse, blame you.  But who are you? Can you be able to define yourself, when they say you are nobody, can you be able to stand and tell them that you are somebody, a chosen generation, peculiar, unique. distinct.
       One thing that has been holding me up to this moment is that, i don't allow my past to dwell in me, anything that happens to me in life which i find out that they are capable of distracting me from my goals, i try as much through the grace of God and with great strength to leave those behind and move ahead.
       Can you be able to do the same, forget the bad experience, change people's thought and ideas about you, stand for yourself and let them know you are unique and wonderfully made, and also that u are a great achiever

Quote of the day
"Never allow your past to decide who you are, be able to stand for yourself, change the impression people have about you. You are what you make of yourself"- Mamme


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ACHIEVING GOALS

              I woke  up one morning, after saying my morning prayers, laying down on my bed. I tried to figure out somethings that should be done for the day. I remembered I had a note down in my dairy, stood up from bed to check out what have written down the other night, it all about goal achievement
              Now this is it, we all have goals, we all have dreams, all anxious about something, we want something to happen. But after setting our goals, have we been able to stand and work on them, any steps taken???. It easy to note down what we want and our aims but there will be no effect if there is no action.
             So are we ready to achieve those goals, knowing that it not going to be that easy, so we've got to be fully prepared like a soldier ready for a battle. We may face rejection, hatred, depression, tiredness and others, but we shouldn't give up. So HOW DO WE GO ABOUT THIS????

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