NEW YEAR'S RESOLUTIONS

          

         Hello everyone, how market today???.Hope we are having a great time out there. My people, it just few days to 2016 oo, before you know it, it already January 1st 2016. Time waits for no man. I think when the new year is around the corner, each and everyone try to ponder on how the present year had been for them, their achievements, what they have been up to and other things. That is just how life is.

          It almost a new year, do you have your new year resolutions set?, are you just planning to have one, or maybe it never crossed your mind. Well, I think for each and everyone who knows he/she is living a life of purpose, should have somethings they are aiming for, and what they want. It never too late to have your own year resolution. It just all about you, what you want for yourself, setting yours goals straight, those things you don't want, because "the sooner you have your new year resolutions, the sooner you can break them". 

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STRUGGLES/REALITIES OF WEARING GLASSES

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Hello my people, how market. So for today's post i will be sharing with you about one of of those changes happening to me. So now am using four eyes, as people say. Lol. To make it simple, now am using glasses as in medicated one. I have been deliberating on it whether to take it or not for a very long time, but then my eye power was increasing and i started having headaches and more difficulty in seeing things far away from me, (Myopia or short-sighted).
I went to visit the doctor, so he suggested i have to go on glasses. I went to the optics shop and they check and then customize the one suitable for my eyes so here i am with my recommended glasses.

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DEEPAVALI OUTING

Hey peeps, am back again. So last Tuesday, the Indians celebrated their festival which is known as "Deepavali".This actually means "the festival of lights" and it one of the largest and brightest festival in India. So I had the opportunity to visit one of my colleagues and the family. They are Christians, but as Indians, it more of a custom to celebrate the festival. 
                   I packed myself wella in my outfit, and a new hairstyle i made myself. yes o. I made my braids over the weekend  and i love it. Left the house in the noon time and went to their house for some happy moment.

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THE GREATEST GIFT I EVER HAD - MY DAD

Father's Day is done in celebration honoring fatherhood, paternal bond, as well as the influence and impacts of fathers in the society. In this season of Father's Day, everyone is celebrating it in one way or the other. Have you wished ur Dad a Happy Father's Day?.
          Still in the spirit of Father's Day. Thinking of all the impacts of a father in one's life. The lessons you have learn't from him, his words of encouragement, prayers. Even though he was/is very strict to you, have you ever thought for once that there is a reason for him doing that. He was in this world before you came, he has been there before, he has gone through all before you, maybe he does't want you to make those mistakes which might cost you your future and dreams of becoming a great person.
         A very good father will never see his own blood about to fall and not try to stop or caution you to avoid that great mistake one is about to make.

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BIRTHDAY SUMMARY

         Yea, so i added another year last saturday, all thanks to God. One of the best days in my life, was so happy and had a little fun. Lol....Okay so let me give a summary of how it went, nothing much though, in the noon time, went out with a friend to had lunch at T.G.I FRIDAYS, So bad i didn't take the pics as a blogger (*side eyes*)....lol. I only remembered to take the picture of my outfit before going out but i had a nice time. That one is the koko....hmm

 Later at night went out with friends to have dinner at a Mexican restaurant, hmmmmm, it was so yummy, the picture will do the explanation. Lol In between i received a lot of text messages, phone calls, birthday wishes and some miraculous and wonderful gift (yes oooo). But in summary, it was such a great day, and i thank God for that great privilege he has given to me to be among the living soul up to this moment. Many more years in greatness, success, joy, greater height. Amen

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MAKING DECISIONS

I was reading a true life story about a lady online who was raped by some guys when she was in her teens. Due to the fact that she was molested and sexually abused, she became angry at herself, she was so angry and mad that she reacted to the actions that were taken on her.
       So what happened next, this circumstance changed her life, she decided to live the "runs girls" life, sleeping around and holding on to the fact that it was due to what happened to her that made her to take those decisions.
       Okay now let analyse this, truly it such a bad thing to experience this kind of situation but then, when you decide to take actions and react in a negative way to what has happened to you, they you will be responsible for your reckless life and be blamed for it.
       Everyone has had one bad experience or the other, but the power, strength to be able to overcome those bad situations is something every one needs to have.
Don't say because you are being abused to be ugly, u accepted and start behaving like one. Don't say because they say you are dumb, u accepted and start behaving like a dumb ass. Don't say because they say u can never make it, you give up on yourself and assume to say they have spoken the truth about your life.

       You are what you define yourself to be, One thing is that they will talk, insult, accuse, blame you.  But who are you? Can you be able to define yourself, when they say you are nobody, can you be able to stand and tell them that you are somebody, a chosen generation, peculiar, unique. distinct.
       One thing that has been holding me up to this moment is that, i don't allow my past to dwell in me, anything that happens to me in life which i find out that they are capable of distracting me from my goals, i try as much through the grace of God and with great strength to leave those behind and move ahead.
       Can you be able to do the same, forget the bad experience, change people's thought and ideas about you, stand for yourself and let them know you are unique and wonderfully made, and also that u are a great achiever

Quote of the day
"Never allow your past to decide who you are, be able to stand for yourself, change the impression people have about you. You are what you make of yourself"- Mamme


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ACHIEVING GOALS

              I woke  up one morning, after saying my morning prayers, laying down on my bed. I tried to figure out somethings that should be done for the day. I remembered I had a note down in my dairy, stood up from bed to check out what have written down the other night, it all about goal achievement
              Now this is it, we all have goals, we all have dreams, all anxious about something, we want something to happen. But after setting our goals, have we been able to stand and work on them, any steps taken???. It easy to note down what we want and our aims but there will be no effect if there is no action.
             So are we ready to achieve those goals, knowing that it not going to be that easy, so we've got to be fully prepared like a soldier ready for a battle. We may face rejection, hatred, depression, tiredness and others, but we shouldn't give up. So HOW DO WE GO ABOUT THIS????

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